tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9059598284719077259.post5586861352965512151..comments2023-05-09T08:29:45.872-04:00Comments on The Jewish Teen: Dating? What is the point?thejewishteenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08080104499632500535noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9059598284719077259.post-23274247232315210202011-04-07T20:47:59.767-04:002011-04-07T20:47:59.767-04:00Hey blabla! Welcome to the party! Well to answer u...Hey blabla! Welcome to the party! Well to answer ur question about how if your with someone wouldn't u grow with them. Blabla have u ever lost a close friend? If u answered yes then explain to me how. Did u get in a fight? Did the friend change? Well if the friend changed and u guys were so Close wouldn't u change with them?<br /><br />I don't know how to answe your second question 100% accurately cuz I'm not married. I am able to say you'll be comparing how the old person u dated bought u flowers and smelled like x. The new person doesnt buy u anything but calls at night, everynigjt. Etc<br /><br />I don't understand the rest of ur comment. Can u please rephrasse it so I can answer it.thejewishteenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08080104499632500535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9059598284719077259.post-20745753696840337572011-04-06T20:17:19.877-04:002011-04-06T20:17:19.877-04:00how can you say that if you are getting emotionall...how can you say that if you are getting emotionally attached to someone that you won't change over time WITH them? and when you say when you get married you'll be constantly comparing your old sig other with them- what exactly does that mean? normally before you get married you should know a little bit more then just a little bit about them before you get in to a marriage and a *physical* relationship.<br />and even if/when there is an physical if you can control yourself ...........<br />whoops:<br />didn't clarify that: the boy and girl are now seniors in their own respective single gender high schools. And you would never think that they are dating BKZ look!! dating appears to be a bad scandalous thing- which it is not. the whole idea is that there is a physical attraction but they just DON'T act.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9059598284719077259.post-29747717389472054792011-04-06T10:20:25.456-04:002011-04-06T10:20:25.456-04:00again (im now talkingabout comment number 2) being...again (im now talkingabout comment number 2) being in a realtionship and you only feel emotionally attached, not physicaly, you have friends to talk to about emotions. so go talk 2 them!!!<br />as for the boy and girl who r 12 and "dating" they are 12!! hello when they turn 18 they will for sure be different people.thejewishteenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08080104499632500535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9059598284719077259.post-34384021742467389632011-04-06T10:18:50.698-04:002011-04-06T10:18:50.698-04:00one more thing, i personally don't think that ...one more thing, i personally don't think that a boy and girl can just be good friends, there has to be some sort of physical attractionthejewishteenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08080104499632500535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9059598284719077259.post-70389445259936930562011-04-06T10:17:49.488-04:002011-04-06T10:17:49.488-04:00Hey jane thanks for your comments. Sense you wrote...Hey jane thanks for your comments. Sense you wrote so much I'll write to comment back.<br />So about what you were saying regarding how dating shomerly is not a big deal in the world you live in, k fine, but does it make it ok? Is it ok to get emotionally attached to someone who you wont marry? Once you do marry yuo will constantly be comparing your old significant other and your new husband/wife.thejewishteenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08080104499632500535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9059598284719077259.post-13995252608542110982011-04-04T17:05:10.992-04:002011-04-04T17:05:10.992-04:00If you are in a shomer relationship/ emotional one...If you are in a shomer relationship/ emotional one you are only sticking to it because you feel that you are emotional connected with no physical aspects. Physical relationships are a total different story , they are bound for failure most times ( even without the aspect of it being an avara. i have a friend who in the last year and a half has been with 5 boys.<br />I know this girl and boy, they went to a coed elementary school and now go to single gender schools. They began "dating" when they were in 6th or 7th grade.even though they are not in physical relationship- they are still together.<br />it is not a likly or probable occurrence- but you just always hope it will happen to you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9059598284719077259.post-67498567269429606312011-04-04T17:04:21.894-04:002011-04-04T17:04:21.894-04:00Uch. I sorta have some issues with this.
I have ma...Uch. I sorta have some issues with this.<br />I have many friends who are in relationships and are under 18. These people are in shomer relationships. The world that i live in, it is not a huge deal- the jewish community is very social- one even if relationships that do fail- it looks good shidduchly knowing people. Just because there are very few guys who are willing to be shomer doesn't mean that the relationships that are should be looked down upon. Many of these relationships are more like very close friends of the opposite gender.Another thing is that when you date shomerly you honestly hope you are dating for marriage. Many times if you do meet that person and they do not change then you are good.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com